Seizing The Moment

Just be .

As if you are in twilight zone again where you are uncertain what the future will bring . But God's delays are not God's denial . As I heard in the TV today " The power of delay is an even bigger harvest ". I know in my heart that even if now I am in a plateau , tomorrow I will be more blessed and God is just using this time to sharpen me.

How we wish to know the perfect timing but God has His way of testing our faith in Him. He knows what is good for us and what is best for us. Hopefully the God given dream will now come my way.

Past mistakes ?  Are there really past mistakes  ? Because if you carefully analyze it you have learn from these events and have made you a better person . Nothing is coincidental . Everything happens for a reason . There are lessons to learn in every event in our lives .

Pain gave us strength to be better than our present self . If you fight it , the more it lingers and cause you to be bitter. Sometimes just let it be and it will just go away. Another day has set and you are now a better person.

Frustrations ...as I've said God's delays are not God's denials . They happen to test our ability to withstand the challenges we face every day.

Accomplishments ...when you remember them they gave you energy and confidence to go out and enjoy life . Face more challenges and accomplish more .

Integrity ...a treasure you enshrine in your life and fight for in your daily struggles for truth and justice for all.

Vision ...what a grand word .To think I thought only companies are entitled for a vision. My vision for myself is to put up a Training firm where I can help people reach their full potential.

Resolutions ...well, not used making one for myself ... the only resolutions I make is when we make case resolutions for disciplinary incidents...

I was so hungry for information , new knowledge and skills because the past years I seem to have just drifted . Though I did not waste time I enjoy family time and be available to my children . But now that they are on their way on having a life of their own . Again I discover myself hungering for growth , for career advancement for myself.... breaking new avenues...

Healing The Child Within

Part of us is a wounded child within that may feel neglected , ignored or simply not given enough attention as a child . We grow up as adults but there are times we feel something is  missing in our lives . We may be successful on the outside with all of our material possessions  and career advancement . But still we are looking for something ... that we can't seem to find.

Some of us even get obsessions on toys, houses, people .. we collect these things not knowing why but later realizing that it was a deprivation in the early part of our life that cause us these obsessions.
A popular TV host seems to have a passion for houses , now he is saying this was because when he was a child their family could not provide a decent home for him . When he went to work in the city , he just rents a small apartment. But now he has mansion like houses , not just one but a couple of houses in different provinces .

We are looking for something we can not define ...Some of us even get sick because we can't find the answers to our questions ...we wonder ..what it is ? Some even fall to addictions ...food, drugs, sex, other material possessions like gadgets ...but still no answers...

When we try to look back in our lives , through therapy or counseling , that's when we discovered that inner child ...still neglected , logical reasoning takes over intuition ( inner mind ) ...but that was along time ago. Yes, but the child within us still wants to be notice and given attention.... because we were not recognize or praise for a good deed. Most of the time we were criticize even ridicule whenever we commit mistakes.

Now that we are adults, the wounded child seem to be resurfacing , trying to get our attention by sometimes being sick ... because when we are sick we get everybody's attention . We become well when we already get  the attention that we crave for.

There is a psychotherapy on healing the child within us . They provide experiential trainings or exercises involving self awareness, creative arts healing , journaling - to free the wounded child and set her free to reconcile with the Adult self now.

The creative arts of drawing , dancing and other creative arts activities - resurfaces the child within us as it recalls the painful experience of childhood and recognizing this , eventually frees the wounded child in us .

We can now face our life as Adults and let the child within us play through recreational activities , much needed breaks and vacations ... our adult and child now reconciles for our good health and a peaceful and successful life.